Saturday, February 12, 2011

Can love Be Addictive?

Love plays havoc in our bodies, especially around this time of the month causing you to act like an addict. Most of us around this time are expecting to receive a gift or gifts from someone we love and this expectation is a behavior that is associated with an addict of drugs or alcohol. When we dont receive anything its like we dont get satisfied and become imbalanced. so is love addictive???? oh yes.........its like we constantly need to take a drug to normalize the imbalance that  we experience. And When a relationship ends,you experience the symptoms that are similar to an addict's withdrawal. Careful.....you may just be a love addict!!!

Thursday, February 10, 2011

Initiated Girl?

Chisungu: A Girl's Initiation Ceremony Among the Bemba of ZambiaWould you like to marry an initiated girl? if someone asked you this question what would you answer. Initiated girls are girls who have been groomed to handle a man in the "proper manner". This includes being taught how to sleep with a man, how to treat him and generally how to behave in a marriage. In some extreme cases these girls are even taught how to tame their men so that they do not stray away in the marriage.....and this is the worst part. I was amazed what one woman confessed to teaching young girls during their initiations. She said taming means the man is feed with all sorts of stuff like chameleons,genitalia hair,blood and even human excrete mixed with traditional medicines that stop the man from having extra marital affairs.....what a shame! so are these initiations really necessary? some say yes because they are going to have mature girl, while others say hell no.....check out this link ...http://kachepa360.com.eeiiissssh scary!