Power To See Opportunity

Everything in the world has a purpose, including the things we throw away and think are useless. Garbage is turned into Gold by people who have the power to see opportunity.

Often times, when looking for opportunity, we want to walk down streets that lead to mansions and turn a blind eye to streets that lead to garbage heaps. It is usually the things that we turn a blind eye to that turn out to be gold coins.
 One of the reasons some people are successful in life  is that they see opportunity and seize it. Its the small things that everyone else ignores that they will concentrate on and make multi million companies.

Lets take a look at Oprah Winfrey and how she seized the opportunity. Two lessons we can learn from her is that she used her personality to find success in her career and built the Harpo empire. Lesson # 2 is that she has always believed that you can do anything and it always begins with yourself.

Success is not about getting what you do not have, it is using what you already have to get what you do not have. Your success may lie in that fabulous personality that you have. The garbage that you are storing in your garage. That laptop that you think is worthless may be the beginning of your success. Take a look at the things you already have,revisit the things you think have no value and you may just be finding the key to your future prosperity.

Shape your Mind, Meet The Real You

Our mindset plays a major role in how we view things and how we make decisions. Other factors that affect us are beliefs and traditional values.

In my location in this part of the world, someone will tell me that i have come up with a business idea because i am currently facing financial difficulties. But really, can i say i never thought of this idea when i had money?

Reality fact number one is that whether someone has money or not they may have ideas of how to make money or become successful. And this is usually triggered by something within ourselves......Our MINDSET.

The mindset is a very powerful tool in our building a successful  business empire. Shun traditional values and beliefs that have been downloaded from generations before and shape your mind to meet the real you. If someone thinks you came up with an idea because you are financially stressed someone wants you to believe that you have no potential of creating or thinking of a good business idea unless you want to make money. Meaning your mind only works at no money dot com.

Learn how to think and act like you are already successful. Shape your mindset like a millionaire and forget the guy who tells you you can never make it just because they never made it themselves.

Once you shape your mind you will meet the real you and believe in yourself!

Ain't No Business Like Showbusiness

How is it that some people are more successful than others? And what really differentiates the successful people from the rest who aren't.
 Many successful people tend to think differently from unsuccessful people. They think of how they can make money from anything or something and even from someone.

A look at the famous and successful Kim kardashian can help us learn a few tricks on how to make money and be popular at the same time. If you see kim enter a room she never crawls along the wall she heads for the centre of the room.
Lesson # 1- Attention always turns into money. So if you want to make money in your business make sure you get noticed and then you wont believe how much traffic you will have coming towards you. Add alittle bit of show business and money will follow you.
Caution! Just you dont rub people the wrong way, i can asure you no one will come your way.

Lesson # 2-Do something that you love.
 Kim kardashian loves shoes,clothes and dont they look fabulous on her? We learn that from her passion of fabulous shoes she has got a dazzlelicious online shop for shoes and other accessories. For those who want somewhere to start from think from within yourself. Put on those shoes and grab some attention and people will ask where you got them from. And what better answer could you have than saying its at your store.
Stay tuned for Two lessons learnt from the rich n' famous successful Women Enterprenuers!

Acyclovir Experience

A few years ago, my sister developed some small blisters on her back side which looked like she had been burnt with hot water. Within a matter of days the blisters grew big and then it become evident it was herpes. Since i was staying with her alone in the house i didn't know what to do with the blisters which were now opening. I took her to the hospital and they only gave her some antibiotics which were not helpful. A few days later we went to seek a second opinion from a private doctor who recommended and prescribed Acyclovir. It was amazing how quickly she responded to the drug treatment.

I think it was all thanks to the private doctor and acyclovir my sister healed quickly. At the time my sister developed the herpes so many people were not being treated well at the hospital and as a result many had endured endless burning( a sensation felt by one having herpes) and scarring for life. It was very unfortunate that the hospital that treated my sister did not even mention the drug acyclovir. I am beginning to think that so many times the people we trust with our lives will not do anything in there power to help us when we are sick.

First Impression........Six Pack!

Great....its friday and my day hasn't been without an event  today. first the land lord comes knocking on my door and guess what she just comes to tell me how to live my life...what the heck!!


Anyway i was just thinking when i went out to have my tyre fixed after a break down trying to get to work in the morning when i saw a tall guy,bonny and without a single muscle on him. so it clicked that what really do we always think when a guy or girl approaches you for the first time.


Regardless of the age you are you will look at the person who approaches you from head to tall or the other way round. Looking for anything that you like and dont like from body physic to the dressing. i really think guys should pay particular attention to there bodies to score points. which girl really wants a bonny man??? All bones and no muscle???? hell nooooo...


so for the guys who want to have a good woman who wants them for who they are here are some tips...... check out this video i recently saw on askmen.com.http://askmen.com/video/sports/888-six-pack-abs-workout.html


GET A SIX PACK DUDE....first impressions means alot!

Bad Girl!!!

Bad girls are on the rise. Some guys are now wondering who are bad girls?.......Ok let me explain who a bad girl is. A bad girl is a woman who has been hardened by men who have hurt,abused or abandoned her in the past. To protect herself she has locked her heart and hurts the men who go after her. This girl takes advantage of men's insecurities to trap them by making them feel like the biggest dude on earth.


Today,true love has become more elusive and men and women are fearful of being rejected or abandoned and thus end up hurting each other. Bad girls transform there anger and pain into a crusade.....destroying every man that falls for her.Depending on what type of bad girl she is she will leave you broken hearted. so here are some types of bad girls

• The Gold Digger-this bad girl type wants men to pamper her because she feels she is take from a man what her father couldn,t give her.
• The Addict- bad girl addict wants a man to enable her fill a void
• The husband hunter wants the security of being taken care of
• The husband stealer wants to prove that her beauty is irresistable even when after the man has pledged his heart  to another man.

Long Distance Valentine!!

Its valentine's day....oh yeah it is. So what are you doing now??? Am definitaley sure you are spreading your love today. Ok..so here are a few ideas to help you spread the sweetness through out the whole day If you are in a long distance relationship....keep the sweetness flowing the whole day by sending text messages about your loved one. Like Today, I’ll send you 14 things I like about you!” Then, send items on your list throughout the day, such as, “You always share your frozen yogurt with me” and “Your kiss still gives me chills.” This proves that you really care and that it’s for all the right, unique reasons. Plus, spreading out your gift over time will make your long-distance love feel special all day long. 




Happy Valentines!!!!

Can love Be Addictive?

Love plays havoc in our bodies, especially around this time of the month causing you to act like an addict. Most of us around this time are expecting to receive a gift or gifts from someone we love and this expectation is a behavior that is associated with an addict of drugs or alcohol. When we dont receive anything its like we dont get satisfied and become imbalanced. so is love addictive???? oh yes.........its like we constantly need to take a drug to normalize the imbalance that  we experience. And When a relationship ends,you experience the symptoms that are similar to an addict's withdrawal. Careful.....you may just be a love addict!!!

Initiated Girl?

Would you like to marry an initiated girl? if someone asked you this question what would you answer. Initiated girls are girls who have been groomed to handle a man in the "proper manner". This includes being taught how to sleep with a man, how to treat him and generally how to behave in a marriage. In some extreme cases these girls are even taught how to tame their men so that they do not stray away in the marriage.....and this is the worst part. I was amazed what one woman confessed to teaching young girls during their initiations. She said taming means the man is feed with all sorts of stuff like chameleons,genitalia hair,blood and even human excrete mixed with traditional medicines that stop the man from having extra marital affairs.....what a shame! so are these initiations really necessary? some say yes because they are going to have mature girl, while others say hell no.....check out this link ...http://kachepa360.com.eeiiissssh scary!

Let Him Know!

Ladies, let him know that he is yours. This year, men are saying if she wants to make and keep me happy my woman will definately give me something from this list

• Cologne
• intimate Bedroom Gifts
• Classic Watch
• DVD's
• Tie
• Wine
• Wind proof lighter.....if he smokes
• travel mugs
• Personalised key Holder

What?? i guess they really set there standards high this time around huh? so this is what will do...shhhh dont tell them yet because they need to be surprised. Give him this card with the following message in it:

                                         That's where I will teach you a lesson on how to be really good!

                        Happy Valentine’s day to my

                                        favorite bad boy! You make life so much fun. 

Thanks for being a part of my life. 

                              You have made me realize the important things in life!

With hugs & kisses

Memo to Men

  
                                             Men keep this in your memoirs for February! Its only a couple of days to valentine's day and you need to send the right message to whomever you give those roses to. You are able to send different messages in the bouqet of flowers you give. Hmmm...sounds exciting right? so here are meanings and you can combine or blend the different colors of roses to suit your message.Dont underestimate woman they know these things!


Red Rose~ Romance & Love
Red represents true love


                                                                              Pink  Rose~Appreciation
                                                 Pink represents gratitude. say thank you for a thousand and one things!


Orange Rose~Passion & Desire
you know what am talking about!


                                                                                    Purple Rose~Love at First sight
                                                                        Are you thinking what am thinking??? come on!


White Rose~Purity & Innocence
White represents true love and pureness of true love.


Now whats it gonna be ,true love with passion? The choice is entirely yours to make.


Happy search for the best combination!                             

P.s.... dont  forget a cute teddy & chocolate!

Valentine' Day

Its valentine's day again. wow...it's a new year and how about looking at it from a different perspective this year huh? We have all heard how it all started and blah..blah..blah.......if your new year resolution is about breaking out of your old routine then you are in the right place. Why would you be giving your loved ones gifts only once in a year????? seriously....change that routine. celebrate your love for your lady or man including your Children and friends EVERY DAY! period. Enjoy every single opportunity you get with them and pour them with showers of love. Give them gifts when they least expect it and you will be there valentine all year round.

Womlays

Womlays is about sharing anything from me to the rest of you out there. so here we go......Have you heard about thousands of people gathered to watch a man disembark from a canoe.....???oh yeah sounds silly and funny. but i am telling you its a very spectacular event people from all over come to this part in western Zambia to see that man in a ceremony called Ku omboka. Ku omboka means coming out of the water. So this ceremony takes place every year because the place where this man lives(king of the lozi people) is usually flooded. The event is so so colourful you dont wanna miss it.The Kuomboka ceremony is quite a big deal and something definitely worth seeing. You haven’t been there? You definetily need to make arrangements to come to Zambia.http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2n6QrGgHhUc

Mad About Marriage

At one time marriage was so fun to me. Now.......Brrrrrrrrrraaaa. Given up. You know what i got so obssesed with getting married that i ended up having two babies without a marriage. Eissshhhh..i wonder how many of you have managed to get the ring on your finger. My friends are all married. well, i guess its a matter of time.

Bachelorate

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From experience, men are just selfish human beings. they think of what they need right now and forget tomorrow. I mean they just want sex. so they dont care whether having it with another person will hurt you. Actually this is where it all starts from. The guy will leave you just following their lust for another woman. You are seriously beautiful but just didn't have that great hip the other girl has....yeah thats what turned him on. Nagging also contributes.Ladies stop nagging your men. A man may really love you but because you use him like an ATM machine he may just start keeping a distance to save his money and this makes him leave you in the end.

Bachelorate

Enough of the barotse nonsense. got to move on with my life.Eishhh. I have been wondering why guys dump girls they dig. take for example myself. I am a 30 year old single lady. i have a good job that pays well, i have my own car(takes me wherever i want), my own house, am beautiful(if i dont tell myself who will), good personality( i know) and yet i was seriously dumped for a high school girl who got screwed up eventually. I almost died of depression for a year and a half.(i got over it). But why do these heart throbs treat us like that and hit the road whenever ? Maybe he was just not into me or what the hell did i do to chase the angel away from me. Another friend  i know got dumped a few months before there wedding. oh yes he booted out.LOL! sounds funny but it was crazy to  see her toss and turn everyday looking like she wished she was never born. The guy literally leaked her feet for two years before he proposed and then all of a sudden  runs away from her like he saw a ghost.A few months later he comes back sniffing with his tail in-between his legs begging to be taken back. what the heck..i told myself if i were you i would cut the tail. He loved her but what really prompted him to dump her? well tomorrow i will tell you why these guys leave these beautiful bachelorattes!

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Barotse saga

The saga continues....... a minister is involved and has admitted to his involvement with shadowy groups calling for succession of barotseland. what on earth is going on??????? on whose side is he on? Government or he is also part of the group calling for succession and causing violence.

Barotseland Agreement

I am a youth and dont necessarily agree with the violence that has been rocking part of our country. Of course those mostly affected are children as was the case one child was killed. The other targets of such acts are the youths. i never saw the the action taking place but i can comfortably say those guys that we running battles were youths. So as a youth yourself what do you think of the situation that is taking place in Barotse. I think as youths we need to stop such barbaric acts.

Bed Dancing-African Styles

Ok....maybe I am weird or a freak or something....but does anyone find bed dancing easier than standing drills? Lol....I know that probably sounds crazy, today when I was lying in bed kind of on my side watching a movie, for some reason i just started doing hip rolls, and for the first time, it was like I actually understood the mechanics of it and it just became this totally natural movement to me, it was so weird! I think it was because it was so easy to keep the rest of my body totally still and not worry about bending the knees or staying in perfect dance posture and was able to perfectly isolate the movement. Has anyone else noticed this? I feel like I hit a goldmine, I'm so excited!

Blogging!

This is so new to me. But am up for the challenge ahead. Every day brings a new challenge so this is day one of my new discovered self.